Shhh...and LISTEN
I would like to think that I am a good listener. I can listen for hours and will occassionally utter "hmmm"..."yeahh"..."ok"....."it will be fine, don't worry"...
And, I still remembered this occassion with a friend 2 years ago. I was out clubbing late until wee hours in the morning, and there she was...staying awake @ 4am, waiting for me to come back to pour her heart out...and it continued till 8am NON-STOP!
I find that, by listening to people..I learn more about them. Their views, feelings, etc and most importantly, their personalities. It is from this experience, I learn how to manage the friendship. So, there is an advantage. =)
I talk a lot too, but mostly to my mum. She knows the MOST information about me, my life and everything/everyone around me. Maybe, I inherited this trait from her. Mum is really and excellent listener with lots of patience.
Listen to hear. How true.
A woman's mind
Being a woman myself, I must admit that we are one extremely complicated being. Men often say we think too much. I must admit, we do. It is as if, there is an invisible crystal ball that tells us what to expect in the future. This is especially true when we encounter a problem/crisis.
The very natural instinct of a woman will start asking questions, why, how, what, when, etc. And it will sometimes, mess us up so much, it reduce us to tears.
I think the song from Beyonce says it so true:
If I were a BOY
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I'll swear I'll be a better man
Men from MARS...Women from VENUS. Hmmmm...COMPLICATED. How true...
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Internet Porn
Firstly, porn and kids. Urrgh. Imagine the damage. Yes, you can install filters, etc...but it seeps to them via emails, via chat messages, etc. How do you educate them that it is damaging to them? Would they understand?
Porn and adults. Especially in marriage. Well, we don't need the filters. We are matured enough to know the limit. Do we? So, when do you draw a line?
So, is it right or wrong? My opinion...it is wrong, sick and disgusting.